Frequently Asked Questions

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Anyone wishing to attend our events at The Lifestyle Lodge will need to meet a criteria that reassures all our guests that they are meeting people who are active within the swinging lifestyle and have displayed a minimum level of swinging lifestyle etiquette. You will need to inform us of any profiles & usernames you have on sites like Spicy Match, Fab Swingers, Pineapple App or Fetlife as this will help you in being able to attend our parties. You will need a minimum of 2 meeting verifications from sites like Fab Swingers. If you do not have any of the above this lesser your chances to be able to attend. Our attending system helps us to maintain an even gender balance and ensures verified and respectful, etiquette savvy lifestylers from various scenes can attend our events.. We also ask all guests attending to bring a form of photo I.D that will be checked against the details you give here as an added security measure. All our regular guests place faith in us to ensure that only vetted & verified guests from the lifestyle attend our events. The Playgrounds parties & events are for couples, transgender guests and verified, singles ladies and gents unless otherwise stated. Limited single verified gents are permitted to attend where stated. ATTENDING: Please contact us with your email address if you would like to attend All our parties and events are strictly GUEST LIST ONLY. Please ensure you include the name to match the one on the guest list you wish to use to gain entry. Please bring a copy of your receipt when you attend. After your attendance has been confirmed you will then be emailed a party confirmation a week before the event. The confirmation will include the full address for the party as well as additional details about the event, eg: arrival times etc

As swinging lifestylers within the scene there are a number of social swinging lifestyle websites that cater for likeminded people, some of the most popular sites are Fetlife, Spicy Match, Fab Swingers, Social Swing, Pineapple app or Swinghub app, to name but a few. People can create profiles on these sites and meet likeminded others, but they also, after meeting others, allow you to verify each other. This is what we ask for when you apply to attend our events as it ensures us that you have met people within the lifestyle and have displayed to others within the scene of an understanding of swinging lifestyle etiquette. You will find The Playgrounds on these and other lifestyle websites. If you would like to ask more about this, please feel free to contact us here

Yes you can if you are a couple, single lady, transgender & single gents. But we will need additional information from you, such as full name/s and resent face picture/s. Along with a brief summery of why you or both wish to attend our lifestyle parties. This will ensure us that you are who you say you are and are wishing to attend for the right reasons.

We have always encouraged new couples, single ladies and transgender guests, who are new to this lifestyle, to attend our parties and events. We can ensure you that we operate NO pressure, NO obligation policy at our parties and events, along with a simple NO means NO rule. If you are new to the scene, please don't hesitate to contact us about attending, concerns, issues or questions, we are here to help.

The Lifestyle Lodge is a large, private, 5 bedroom, secluded house just outside Burton-on-Trent on the edge of South Derbyshire. The full address of the house is only given to ticket holders only a week before an event to maintain privacy and discression.

This can be a tough answer as attendance can vary for each event and can be dependant on the time of the year, weather and the financial climate. On average we tend to have at least 40 to 50 guests at our events. Please note: We will never run an event with less than 30 guests.

We always say that all guests should bring there own condoms and lube to our parties as we cannot ensure we have spare supplies.

Simple answer is NO, sex only takes place at the parties mutual between consenting adults that are attracted to each other. We always say to all new guests that they should attend with zero expectations attitude.

All Playgrounds parties are strictly prepaying ticket/guest list only. Our parties cater for couples and single ladies and select limited single guys. Please read the rules below which we believe is a basic swing etiquette and will also help all guests to have a fabulous night. Single gents wishing to attend our parties must be 25 years plus to be eligible to attend. 1. You MUST book and buy your ticket in advance before attending any event, this enables us to keep a good balance between couples and singles attending, primarily for your enjoyment of the venue. You can contact us via this site or our Fab Swingers profile: The Playgrounds 2. If you have not contacted us prior to the party and you are not on The Playgrounds guest list, you could be refused entry on arrival. 3. No recording equipment including mobile phones are allowed in the venue at any time. You may ask a staff member to look after and monitor your phone if you are expecting a potential important call from a baby-sitter etc. 4. Excessive drinking whilst in the venue or before you arrive could lead you to making decisions you wouldn’t normally make, if the staff find that you are above an acceptable limit, we may refuse entry to the venue or asked to leave the venue. We have a zero acceptance to drugs, anyone found taking, selling or under the influence will be removed from the club/house and grounds. 5. Before touching, groping or joining in with anyone anywhere in the club, permission should always be sought first, this includes anyone playing downstairs or upstairs. Even when people are playing in an open area this does not mean that you can join in without asking permission first. 6. There should be no assumption that previous playing with a person or group indicates permanent or future permission during the evening or on other events and permission should be confirmed on each occasion. 7. No always means NO and correct etiquette is not to question any individuals answer. If someone has asked you to stop doing something, you should do so immediately and leave the area or stand back. You should not try and explain yourself, carry on or make anyone feel uncomfortable. 8. Safe sex in the venue is an individual’s responsibility however The Playgrounds expects all gentlemen to wear protection unless it has been expressly agreed otherwise before play has commenced. 9. Our play areas are available equally to all guests. On busy nights please be mindful of other guests wishing to use the play areas after you. For the closed-door room, we would suggest limiting the time to approximately 30 mins. Please ensure that you clean up after yourselves or advise a staff member if an area needs our attention, and place all used towels in the bins provided. Please also ensure that all drinks remain on the shelves provided to avoid spillages 10. If you have any cause to complain about another guest or guests, please report this immediately to a staff member so we may rectify the situation. If you feel uncomfortable doing this, please contact us as soon as possible afterward by email or phone to discuss your concerns. 11. We have a ZERO tolerance policy on Drugs - this means you cannot take drugs before you attend The Playgrounds Parties, or whilst you are at the venue, either inside or outside the venue. Anyone found to be under the influence of drugs will be removed from the venue immediately and permanently. 12. Smoking outside the venue is permitted, but only in the designated area. Smoking is forbidden anywhere inside the venue or any Jacuzzi or pool areas where applicable. Please use your common-sense and look for other members body language, please respect others wishes and don’t assume anything. Please remember any form or sexual harassment will not be tolerated, sexual harassment laws do not stop once inside the venue. Whilst attending any of The Playgrounds parties you agree to abide by the rules stated above. Failure to abide by these rules means that you may be asked to leave the venue permanently. The management reserve the right to change or amend these rules without notice

Upon arrival at the venue please have the following ready so we can confirm you are on our guest list Your profile username or guest list name & a form of photo I.D. Failure to provide photo I.D. may result in us refusing you entry. DRESS CODE We always encourage dressing for the party themes but it’s not essential, otherwise, smart and sexy. No trainers, t-shirts, ripped jeans, sportswear, or hoodies. If no effort is made to dress appropriately then this means you could be turned away. Personal hygiene is paramount within the lifestyle so please ensure this when attending. If you have any questions or issues, please contact us here The Playgrounds operate a NO means NO policy, in a no pressure no obligation environment. We ALWAYS expect all of our guests to display a basic lifestyle etiquette within the club/venue. Also see our house rules and etiquette policies page We operate a zero-tolerance policy towards drugs. On no occasion can mobile phones or any other kind of electronic recording device be used during our events. If it's essential that you need your mobile phone on you, please notify our staff. Phones, in emergencies, can be used outside the venue. Failure to comply with The Playgrounds house/club rules will mean you will be asked to leave. Be aware sexual assault and sexual harassment laws do not stop at the house/club/venue door.