by Swinger.net
The swinging lifestyle doesn’t just entail swapping partners and having random hook ups with others, it also fosters an environment of openness and acceptance for all in and out of the lifestyle.
You can be a better swinger if you and your partner are honest with each other about your time as a swinger, are thoughtful of others in and out of the bedroom and practice good hygiene.
Honesty in Your Own Relationship:
You can be a better swinger by always being truthful with your partner. It is important to have an open line of communication between couples so that everyone can share their feelings and experiences freely.
Only with honesty can we truly tackle issues we may be facing in our relationship. Swinging cannot save an already broken relationship but can strengthen one by adding some spice with new sexual fantasies and adventures.
Improving Relationships with Other Swingers:
Veteran swingers don’t believe that jealousy is an issue among swingers as they consider play partners of the lifestyle, just play partners. There are lesser chances of infidelity among swingers as playtime with others are in the open and with the consent of their life partner.
Couples that play together stays together. They have their own rules, guidelines and boundaries that govern their playtime and shares it with potential playmates to not cause any problems or confusions.
Take the time to discuss your own boundaries with others so that everyone is on the same page and playtime runs smoothly.
Care For Other Swinger Couples in Bed:
Set the mood and build a friendly environment for all to relax and feel comfortable. When you are at a swinger party and looking for others for that sexual fantasy, a threesome, enjoy chatting, eating, and drinking with them so everyone is at ease for the fun later on.
Avoid being rude or rough with your play partners as news travel fast in the swingers world and one bad encounter can follow up.
It is very common for couples to seek referrals and verifications before considering you to join in on their fun. You can strengthen your sexual relationship with others only by honouring their concern for their partners as well as yours.
Hygienic Carefulness:
Couples turn to the swingers lifestyle to add some spice to their relationship. Cleanliness is next to Godliness as swinging is next to good hygiene.
If you have finally got the right play partner for your fantasy, time should be spent grooming yourself for this encounter.
You should take care of your hygiene as couples who have enjoyed time with you can get emotionally and physically connected with you only if you are hygienically safe and well maintained.
In closing, you can be a better swinger if you maintain your hygiene, be honest with all involved and respect the feelings and thoughts of other couples.
The swingers lifestyle opens the door to new sexual revelations that most couples can only dream of but never experience. With a open honest and mature relationship, sexual revolution is possible.
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